Free download · For kids & their grown-ups

The Feelings Detective

Games, missions and puzzles for curious hearts. A printable booklet that helps children befriend their feelings.

Print it at home, grab some crayons. No email needed.

What's inside?

Feelings are messengers. They visit to tell you something you need. And then, like all visitors, they leave again. Detectives don't chase feelings away. Detectives get curious.

That is the whole spirit of this booklet. Your child gets a detective name, a feelings compass, and a series of missions: drawing the weather inside them, spying on feelings in other people, puzzling out what a feeling might be asking for. Everything is black and white on purpose: it's theirs to colour.

There are little notes to grown-ups along the way too. You don't need to fix your child's feelings; being curious together is plenty.

There is something for every age, from 3 to 12.

Eight languages

Pick your language

For the grown-ups

The Empathy Walk

While the kids are on their missions, this one is for you: a gentle seven-step practice for meeting yourself honestly, when something is still stirring. Also free, also printable.

Visit the Empathy Walk

Something for the parents

We send one letter every week or two: a practice, a question, something we are working through ourselves. You can leave whenever you like.

This is not a newsletter.

Before you go

Did this meet a need in you?

In NVC, gratitude has a shape: you name the need that was met. If this page gave you something, tap the word that comes closest. One tap is plenty.

Curiosity is a family practice

The booklet is a doorway. The language of feelings and needs behind it is one the whole family can learn.

How the raffle works

  • On the first Monday of every month we draw three names from everyone who entered since the previous draw. Each entry takes part in exactly one draw.
  • The first name drawn wins free participation in the 2027 NVC Learning Community. The second and third each win €500 (or $500) off.
  • One entry per person per month. You need to be 18 or older. Entry to the raffle is free.
  • Already registered for the Learning Community? You can still win: your prize is applied as a refund of the difference.
  • Winners are notified by email and have 7 days to respond, otherwise we draw a new name.
  • Prizes are personal and cannot be paid out in cash.
  • This raffle is not sponsored, endorsed, or administered by Facebook or Meta.
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